Aunt Cassie putting me to sleep. |
Sitting up/ tummy time. |
All smiles! |
Uncle Tristan. |
Family love. |
Kisses the night before surgery! |
Well today is the big day. The day we have been waiting to
come for almost 5 months. Today, Caelin got his Glenn. He went back at 7AM and
Mommy received a call at 9AM from the surgical PA, Mary Ann, saying his
surgical lines were placed successfully, Dr. Chai began operating, and they
were getting ready to put him on bypass. At 10:13 AM we received a call saying
Dr. Chai finished operating and Dr. Galas, the cardiologist, was in there
measuring pressures and checking everything over. Once he gives the green
light, they will close Caelin up, take him off bypass, and begin recovery back
in the OR. Then 11 minutes later, Dr. Galas called to inform us everything
looks great. At the same time, Mary Ann from the OR was calling Mommy but she
didn’t answer. Mommy walked out of the waiting room to find Dr. Galas right
outside. So we hung up the phone and began going over Cael’s current position
in person. At this time Mary Ann called again to let us know Dr. Chai closed
Caelin up and was on his way out speak with us. Dr. Galas told us his part and
would let Dr. Chai fill in the details. When Dr. Chai came out, he said
everything went straightforward and Caelin was on bypass for less than an hour.
He said he really did not have much else to say as he is very pleased with the
outcome of his surgery. We are so excited and relieved. We hope Caelin
continues to do well with transitioning out of surgery and into recovery. I
wanted to write an update now because the plan is for Caelin to come out
extubated, which means he will be awake, angry, and in pain so I may not have
time to update the blog afterward. I will, however, try to post an update on
how Caelin is feeling to Facebook because it is quicker. For those of you who
have not yet been to his Facebook page it is www.facebook.com/caelinsjourney .
Just to recap this weeks events:
Everything in the cath lab went perfectly. His pulmonary
pressures looked great as did his pulmonary arteries and aorta. The doctors
could not see anything on the cath that would explain Caelin’s hypertension or
justify his oxygen requirement, expect his shunt tapered. With this, everyone
agreed his heart was ready for surgery and to keep the scheduled Friday morning
date. He came out extubated and had no issues after the cath- this was a huge
relief as the last visit to cath lab was traumatizing.
Caelin having his surgery today came as a complete surprise
to us. As most of you know, his surgery was initially scheduled for tomorrow,
Friday, August 10th. Well this past Tuesday, August 7th,
Jenn (a PA) came in to tell us, “There has been a change of plans.” Mommy was
the only one at the hospital with Caelin, as Daddy was with Cassie and Tristan
at MOSI. Jenn explained to Mom there had been three new babies born, all
requiring surgery soon. Because of this, a newborn had to have a more complex
surgery (later we found out it is the Norwood) than Caelin’s Glenn, so they
were pushing Cael’s surgery back to Tuesday, August 14th. This was
disappointing news and immediately Mommy expressed her frustration. Jenn
offered to relay our concerns to Dr. Chai and to leave him a message asking him
to call us. Around 5 PM the hospital room phone rang. Mommy went to give the
phone to Daddy and he told her to talk to him, that women can be more
convincing (as it turns out, he may have been right…). I shared with Dr. Chai
all of our valid concerns. At this point, Caelin was on 60% oxygen and had
required oxygen support for 4 weeks without the doctors having an explanation.
He has had his RA line in for 9 weeks, which has only one working lumen, and
with each passing day his risk of infection gets a little bit higher. In four
days, Caelin could catch this cold virus that seems to be making its way around
recently. His trip to the cath lab back in May was held off a few extra days,
which caused his heart to get sicker and be unable to handle a big procedure
and therefore, contributed to his heart arresting, requiring 50 minutes of
unresponsive CPR, and ending up on ECMO to survive- we did not want to wait for
his heart to get worse in any way… we wanted it to be as strong as possible for
surgery. We have been at the hospital since Caelin was born, almost five
months, and have highly anticipated this day. Once we got this date, we had our
heart set on it and it is painful to think it would get pushed back four days.
That is four more guaranteed days in the hospital for Caelin and us and we are
ready for him to start recovering so he can be stable to come home. Also, Daddy
has to return to work next week and he is working at a new school. He would not
have been able to be at the hospital with Mommy while Cael was having surgery
and this is extremely important to both of us. Thank goodness Dr. Chai listened
to Mommy and heard the pleading tone of her voice. He agreed with everything
she said and offered to plan to have Caelin be the second case on Friday after
the Norwood. Mommy asked if there was any way Caelin could go on Wednesday or
Thursday and Dr. Chai said it would not be possible with the schedule. Settling
for 50 % chance Cael would be second case on Friday we were upset, disheartened
and realistic- no one was a fan of Cael going to surgery on a Friday afternoon.
We knew in our heads it would not happen but in our hearts we wanted to
believe.
Well, Wednesday afternoon at about 3:00 PM, Jenn came back
in saying, “There’s been a slight change in plans.” Sean and I looked at each
other pessimistically. Upon these looks Jen blurts out, “Tomorrow.” Struck with
disbelief we asked, “Really?” After affirming it, we told Cael the good news
and celebrated in our room. A few minutes later, Laurie the nurse practitioner
came in to see us. She told us she knew we heard the news because she saw Mom
from the hallway and she reminded her of the lady on the Orbitz commercial. Guess
Mommy looked a little excited. J We do not know the details of how everything worked
out but if it were another child’s surgery that got pushed back, then we do
feel bad and hope that child and his/her family is alright. But at the same
time, we are the only advocates for our son, he has been here a long time and
he needs this surgery before he can progress. We are beyond appreciative for
everyone who helped make this schedule work for Cael to get in this morning.
Thank you all for following Caelin’s blog and progress and
for loving our son so much. We are grateful for your thoughts, prayers, and
positive energy. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of our hearts!!!
We love you!
Hi cael I love you so much hope you get to o home soon love aunt cassie
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